It generally does not seem like you have got any good grounds to worry.

It generally does not seem like you have got any good grounds to worry.

I believe that it is a fairly good trait for dudes to own a respectable amount of feminine buddies; it indicates they do not donate to the toxic (and common) proven fact that both women and men can never be buddies because males would like to bone tissue. It indicates they see women as sentient and complex beings that are human not only sex things – the truth that you state he is ‘not super laddy’ would appear to aid this interpretation. Like you have any evidence – I don’t see any issue here unless you have reason to believe that he’s f**king all his female friends – and it doesn’t sound.

Nonetheless, this insidious view – that males only ever desire intercourse from females, and as a consequence if they’re buddies together with them,

It’s just a means to an fina end – is actually pervasive within our tradition (see ‘friendzone’, as an example). It really is according to a load of unhelpful, essentialist sex stereotypes, plus in quick, it is bulls4hit.